{"id":4,"date":"2014-08-23T18:54:51","date_gmt":"2014-08-23T18:54:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/empoweru\/?p=4"},"modified":"2014-08-23T20:33:01","modified_gmt":"2014-08-23T20:33:01","slug":"becoming-resilient","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/empoweru\/2014\/08\/23\/becoming-resilient\/","title":{"rendered":"Becoming Resilient"},"content":{"rendered":"

Resilient: Mike Tyson Motivation<\/a><\/p>\n

Hello Friends.<\/p>\n

I am thankful you took the time to start making positive changes towards healthy relationships your life.\u00a0 In this busy world we juggle work,\u00a0family, friends and our social life but we don’t take the time to focus on how those relationships affect us. A lot of times you may sit around in\u00a0miserable relationships because you feel obligated or that you cannot do better.\u00a0 I see this a lot with adult children and their parents.\u00a0 The parent is constantly belittling them, talking down to them or just not acknowledging them as an adult that can make decisions in their life.\u00a0\u00a0When that happens the\u00a0reasoning that\u00a0people\u00a0always tell themselves is “that’s my mom” or “that’s my dad”.\u00a0 This reasoning can occur in any relationship.\u00a0 Friends taking advantage of your kindness, you are\u00a0always there to support them and when you need support they aren’t emotionally available\u00a0or always steals the spotlight.\u00a0\u00a0 Spouses or partners not acknowledging your needs. Notice I said your needs not your wants.\u00a0 You teach people how to treat you and until you decide that you are a valued person that will be treated with love and respect, you will remain miserable and even become resentful.<\/p>\n

Today is the day that you become the conductor of the relationships in your life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Resilient: Mike Tyson Motivation Hello Friends. I am thankful you took the time to start making positive changes towards healthy relationships your life.\u00a0 In this busy world we juggle work,\u00a0family, friends and our social life but we don’t take the … Continue reading →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":401,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/empoweru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/empoweru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/empoweru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/empoweru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/401"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/empoweru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/empoweru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/empoweru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4\/revisions\/30"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/empoweru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/empoweru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/empoweru\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}