Fear of actually having what you want. Let me go into greater detail:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not having what you want is an excuse to not succeed. People can be so interested in not having a good life or a joyful life that they self-sabotage their own interests with doing what it takes to not succeed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Quitting fills the need for certainty. You like certainty so much that you quit only to prove to yourself and others that you can not stop your struggle with depression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Comfort where you are. You have done depression for so long that you are comfortable and secure in it. To deal with life in another way is a change that you fear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Certainty in not getting what you want. You want to fill the need for certainty or comfort so much that you will sacrifice joy to make a point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I get it. I was the same. But when I made the effort to change I found it to be so worth it. How I did it is available here: Fear of actually having what you want. Let me go into greater detail: Not having what you want is an excuse to not succeed. People can be so interested in not having a good life or a joyful life that they self-sabotage their own interests with doing what it takes to not succeed. Quitting fills … Continue reading Depression and the fear of having what you want.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":655,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1348","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1348","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/655"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1348"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1348\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1349,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1348\/revisions\/1349"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1348"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1348"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1348"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
https:\/\/lylcoach.lchlegacy.com\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"