{"id":817,"date":"2017-10-03T18:25:51","date_gmt":"2017-10-03T18:25:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/?p=817"},"modified":"2017-10-03T18:25:51","modified_gmt":"2017-10-03T18:25:51","slug":"i-coached-my-coach","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/2017\/10\/03\/i-coached-my-coach\/","title":{"rendered":"I coached my coach"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So, for a few years I have had my own life coach. (We all need someone). She has not been able to do much coaching lately because of migraines. I tried to talk to her last week, but she was physically not able.<\/p>\n<p>The funny thing is this. I woke up that morning, and\u00a0I sensed she<strong> needed me<\/strong> this time. The plan was to get her input on something I am going through then help her.\u00a0 I gave her situation a lot of thought on my morning walk. I came up with what I thought was going on with her. Now, normally, a coach will lead the client to the answer. But I took a different approach with her. I analyzed her situation and came up with the situation and solution I felt would help.<\/p>\n<p>I got very disappointed I could not talk to her. I felt bad that her migraines were so terrible. I went through a period of time when I had migraines so I understand to some extent what they are like. But mine were never as bad as her migraines, and mine have since stopped.<strong> I also felt bad that I could not coach her.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Too sick to talk on the phone, I sent her an email. I have to tell you that it felt like a very bold move to coach my coach. I really admire her. I think she is very wise. Who was I to coach her?<strong> It felt like an amateur coaching a pro.<\/strong> But I put on my coach&#8217;s hat and told her what I thought was going on in her life and what to do.<\/p>\n<p>I sent the email, and really wished to not get a response. I thought she might disagree with my diagnosis and solution. Well, after a few days, there was a quick <strong>response on Facebook: My message helped. Thank you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I was so pleased. She said she had not yet responded to the email due to feeling so disabled. But that she would go into detail later. I was pleased because I helped someone. Not only that, but someone I admire.<strong> I helped my mentor.\u00a0<\/strong>She is the sort of person you don&#8217;t think needs any advice or coaching. She seems to have all the answers. I mean she seems to know everything. But we all need help sometimes.\u00a0She probably does not get a lot of advice from those she coaches.<\/p>\n<p>Last night she made quite a post on Facebook. She talked about how she feels about things. I made a reply. She replied that I was the reason for this post. And she thanked me again. I felt so proud to have helped. I know that my one coaching email made a difference to my coach, my mentor. I look forward to finding out more of how it helped when she feels able to let me know.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">In the meanwhile, I know this:<strong> I coached my coach and my coach won, and so did I.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You see, a relationship between a coach and a client is partnership between equals. Your victories are as much your coach&#8217;s victories. Her feeling better about things makes me happy. To know that I helped warms my heart and brings a smile to my face.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I just wanted to share that success story.<\/p>\n<p>Cheers!<\/p>\n<p>Coach<\/p>\n<p>www.facebook.com\/lisaylifecoach<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, for a few years I have had my own life coach. (We all need someone). She has not been able to do much coaching lately because of migraines. I tried to talk to her last week, but she was physically not able. The funny thing is this. I woke up that morning, and\u00a0I sensed &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/2017\/10\/03\/i-coached-my-coach\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">I coached my coach<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":655,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[333],"class_list":["post-817","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-coached-my-coach"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/817","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/655"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=817"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/817\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":818,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/817\/revisions\/818"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=817"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=817"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/lisay\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=817"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}