{"id":2,"date":"2021-05-04T21:24:31","date_gmt":"2021-05-04T21:24:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/samfishman\/?page_id=2"},"modified":"2021-06-19T14:50:03","modified_gmt":"2021-06-19T14:50:03","slug":"sample-page","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/samfishman\/","title":{"rendered":"Trouble with Connecting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.4&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#d1e4de&#8221; use_background_color_gradient=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color_gradient_start=&#8221;#e22d6f&#8221; background_color_gradient_end=&#8221;#ff0800&#8243; custom_margin=&#8221;||-26px|||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||43px|||&#8221;][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;3_4,1_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;16px|auto|-43px|auto||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;14px||41px|||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;3_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||0px||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/samfishman\/ameliabooking\/\" style=\"color: #ffffff\">Schedule a Free Sample Session!<\/a><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;font-size: x-large\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;font-size: x-large\">Welcome!<\/span><span style=\"color: #ffffff;font-size: x-large\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;font-size: x-large\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff\">In the bestselling book &#8220;Ignite your Inner Spirit&#8221; that I co-author in, I talk about reclaiming a life that goes beyond your regular means, and beyond just accepting things the way they are now.\u00a0 \u00a0If you&#8217;re currently having difficulties connecting with or even talking to your children that&#8217;s obviously something that should be addressed seriously and shouldn&#8217;t just be taken for, &#8220;Well it is what it is.&#8221;\u00a0 Working with me will involve searching for the root of what caused the disconnect between you and your child or children, and talking through what you&#8217;ve done that&#8217;s worked and what hasn&#8217;t and see if we can&#8217;t come up with some solutions that <em>do<\/em> work.\u00a0 We have to troubleshoot whether this came from not enough quality time spent together due to work or some other reason, not enough genuine interest in your child&#8217;s interests causing a lack of real engagement, inauthentic personalities your child picks up from school complicating things, harmful patterns passed down from your own parents that you&#8217;re subtly or not subtly repeating, or even too much engagement with your kid \/ kids and not giving them enough personal space.\u00a0 In reality the reasons for disconnection are going to be a multitude and not a single reason, which I think is useful to know.<\/span><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"><\/span><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff\">So, I ask you this: what&#8217;s getting in your way from resolving this on your own?\u00a0 Also, do you know what your child really needs from you?\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;font-size: 14px\">Dealing with the disconnection I had from my own mom, who is a single mother, for years starting in my adolescence, because videogames had consumed my life and distracted me to the point where I wasn&#8217;t prioritizing human connection in general. I felt good at the time because I loved gaming, but it really had some consequences for my life.\u00a0 Thinking back on what I needed from my mom during my adolescence and still being close to that age gives me a perspective which I believe I can use to help you and to give you ideas on how to approach your children in a way that will make them more receptive to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff\">I want you to imagine would it look like if you had reconnected with your child again in a way that was comparable to when they were a baby.\u00a0 That mutual love that transcends the world.\u00a0 That&#8217;s what I want for you and your loved ones! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff\">So consider scheduling a free sample session, we&#8217;ll take 45 minutes or the hour or whatever and talk through things, see if the relationship works, and I&#8217;ll also give you tips on what you can try at home.<\/span><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;font-size: 14px\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/samfishman\/ameliabooking\/\" style=\"color: #ffffff\">Schedule a Free Sample Session Today!<\/a><\/span><\/em><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/samfishman\/files\/2021\/05\/DSC02632-Edit-scaled.jpg&#8221; title_text=&#8221;DSC02632-Edit&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#420400&#8243; use_background_color_gradient=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color_gradient_start=&#8221;#00f9f1&#8243; background_color_gradient_end=&#8221;#d1e4de&#8221; min_height=&#8221;46px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||46px|||&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; min_height=&#8221;25px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;2px||6px|||&#8221;][\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Schedule a Free Sample Session! 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In the bestselling book &#8220;Ignite your Inner Spirit&#8221; that I co-author in, I talk about reclaiming a life that goes beyond your regular means, and beyond just accepting things the way they are now.\u00a0 \u00a0If you&#8217;re currently having difficulties connecting with or even talking to your children that&#8217;s obviously [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1428,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<p>If you've come this far you're probably in a toxic relationship with a family member, maybe more than one.\u00a0 The most important thing is redeeming your integrity and peace of mind.\u00a0 You don't want this poisening the rest of your life just because this relationship isn't working well yet.\u00a0 You also need to find a way to talk to this person\/people, I talk more about recovery in the video below.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n<!-- wp:video -->\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video controls src=\"https:\/\/www.ctacoaches.com\/897f1e44-a78e-4705-9ada-39c2d9a649cb\"><\/video><\/figure>\n<!-- \/wp:video -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Recovering your dignity requires something that might be difficult.  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