Small victories lead to the ultimate prize- Part 2

As I said last time, acceptance is the first step of beginning progress to tackle your fibromyalgia. This is a huge step. To some it may be small, but by being able to look it in the face and say okay I acknowledge you’re here with me for a long time, let’s do something about it. That’s empowering, rather than what’s going on with me? Why do I have this? Why do I have to deal with these symptoms’ day in and day out? This is victimized thinking. Now, if you think you’re the only one that’s had thoughts like this. Guess again, these are all thoughts that have circled throughout my head before.

However, no change can occur, no progress can be made until you recognize what you’re dealing. So, what is Fibromyalgia? The simplified answer is it’s a chronic pain condition that affects the nerves, muscles, and energy level of your body. It is associated with increased amplification of the sensory (touch, smell, sight, etc.) These flare-ups can occur from any situation that heightens stress. Whether it’s moving, loss of a loved one, an argument with a significant other or kids, worrying about things out of your control, etc. Once the fight or flight response is triggered into high gear then all of your symptoms will begin to increase. There is a way to start recognizing these triggers though and I’ll go into that on a different post. For now, though, know that it’s treatable.

Even though there is claimed to be no known cause, but many factors that are in relation to the possibility of having fibromyalgia. I did read a book called, “The Fibromyalgia Solution” by David Dryland. In his book he theorizes that fibromyalgia is caused by a combination of three aspects trauma, an anxiety disorder, and a sleep disorder. These are also the main suspects in exacerbating the symptoms of fibromyalgia. As soon as I read this it started to click in my brain. I had all of these different disorders or challenges and I had to look at them one by one.

So, recognizing what I have and where it’s coming from, helps me to logically look at it as something that can be managed. Something that I can scientifically/systematically work on a little at a time to create positive health results in my life. Rather than it being some nebulous chronic condition that no one really understands and therefore are not able to do anything about.

It’s not an easy road though. I am here to help you climb this mountainous illness either through my blog content or doing personal coaching. If you are interested in being coached, go to my Facebook page at “Summiting Fibromyalgia” so we can set up a free complimentary sample session. All you have to do is either click on the Book now icon or DM me and we can set something up. Let’s get your acceptance and recognition of the problem and turn it into practical steps that will get you feeling better while climbing this mountainous condition.

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Small victories lead to the ultimate prize- Part 1

Looking at mountains such as: Grays or Pikes Peak in Colorado, the Grand Tetons in Wyoming or even Mount Everest in the Himalayas appear daunting to say the least. Often times, I’ll hear myself say, wow that summit is way up there and I’m all the way down here. Maybe that’s why adventurists like myself look at these insurmountable obstacles with admiration and respect. At times though, when starting to climb any of these monumental land features, it can feel overwhelming, an initial shock of pain and self-doubt can sweep over my mind. How did I get over this then to climb Grays Peak back in July of this year….my first 14er? I took it one step, one mental check point, one breath at a time.

When I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia way back in 2012, I wasn’t ready to hear it. That obstacle or mountainous challenge in my life just seemed too overwhelming to acknowledge. I then received the same diagnosis in June of 2019. At that point, I had a choice to make to either live in denial or accept my mountain stare it down and say, “I’m going to climb you! I’m going to figure you out. I will get to this summit of good health.”

What changed in the span of seven years? It was my mindset. Through many therapists, the support of my family and my Savior, Jesus Christ I began to take gradual steps in healing. The first part of any healing process is acceptance of the reality that you’re facing. If you can only get to the point of looking your fibromyalgia in the face this week and say, “Okay, I accept you’re here with me on this journey through life”, then that is a monumental step. Acceptance of the truth of the situation your facing is what spurs on positive change.

Stay tuned next week for the next step…

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Belief is Power

With any mountain or challenge in life the first step in conquering it is belief. The mind is so powerful and, in many ways, either propels us forward or holds us back depending on what we tell ourselves and believe. With every challenging hike or mountain that I climb I have to believe that I can accomplish the task. Granted at times it takes multiple moments of reinforcing this belief that I can do it.

In psychology, the term for this is called positive visualization. Say that I have to give a public speech in front of a crowd and I’m pretty nervous. I get up to give the speech and I start stumbling over my words and become more concerned of what people think about me. Chances are the speech is not going to go how I want it to. I’m more reacting than being proactive to the situation. Now the second scenario I begin to play out in my mind how the speech will go, when to emphasize what part of the speech, how the crowd will react, etc. More often times than not, the speech will go a lot smoother. I’ve had similar situations happen to me. If I just take a little time to mentally prepare and visualize the successful outcome, then the likelihood of yielding positive results is higher.

Regardless of what situation you’re in, you have the ability and capability of taking it by the reins and putting yourself in the driver’s seat. Before you do that though, just know that the power of belief can go a long way.

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